Civility’s Hollow Promise

Oklahoma Governor Kevin Stitt and Maryland Governor Wes Moore recently called for civility in politics, arguing that dignity is a desirable trait in government. However, their plea raises more questions than it answers.

The governors’ remarks were made during a conversation at the National Governors Association summer meeting in Oklahoma City. Stitt attributed the rise of extreme candidates to the partisan primary system, where polarizing figures tend to win out over more moderate alternatives. Moore concurred, stating that most politicians share common goals but are often overshadowed by those who exploit division for their own gain.

The notion that civility can be a winning strategy in general elections but not in primaries is puzzling. If dignity and moderation are truly desirable traits in politicians, why do they only emerge when partisan fervor subsides? Is it simply a matter of tone-deafness on the part of voters, or is there something more insidious at play?

The governors’ criticisms of social media as a contributor to polarization are well-taken. Social media has created an environment where civility is seen as a luxury rather than a necessity. However, this critique overlooks the deeper issue: our politics are fundamentally ill-suited for fostering meaningful engagement.

In-person connection, as Moore advocated, is a noble ideal but also a relic of a bygone era. Town halls and grassroots organizing were once effective means of communication between voters and elected officials, but these methods have largely been replaced by social media – a platform that amplifies polarization rather than bridging divides.

Moore’s anecdote about his great-great-great-great-great grandfather Prince Ames highlighted the disconnect between our ideals and harsh realities. If we want to honor the sacrifices made by those like Prince Ames, perhaps we should confront systemic inequalities plaguing our society.

The governors’ call for dignity in politics is a welcome sentiment but ultimately a Band-Aid on a deeper wound. Until we address the root causes of polarization and partisanship – including social media’s role and the partisan primary system – civility will remain an afterthought. As the country hurtles toward increasingly divisive elections, one can’t help but wonder: what’s next for politicians who genuinely want to lead by example?